Forever Blue Planet

Naming something isn’t just about words. Names carry weight—they encapsulate values, journeys, and aspirations. Forever Blue Planet represents a convergence of past, present, and purpose.

The inspiration took root in my younger years. While my childhood wasn’t without its challenges, there were moments—small yet vivid—that held a special kind of magic. In those fleeting instances, I found solace in simple rituals, like writing innocent phrases such as “Forever Friends” or “Forever [someone you care about’s name]” on pencil cases or scraps of paper. These small acts, though naïve in their optimism, were my way of reaching for something permanent in an impermanent world. They symbolised hope, connection, and the longing to leave a mark, even as everything else around me felt uncertain. And yet, childhood itself felt as though it stretched on forever.

Later in life, after years immersed in the humanities, I found myself drawn to existentialism—a lens through which I began to see the fragility and beauty of human life and this planet. Existential thought doesn’t promise us forever; instead, it reminds us of the fleeting nature of our existence. It challenges us to create meaning in the here and now, to carve out something lasting within the constraints of time. As an adult, I now see how brief my existence is, how time passes in the blink of an eye.

This blue planet—our fragile, singular home—is as full of contradictions as any life. It’s resilient yet vulnerable, beautiful yet marked by challenges. The more I worked with individuals to help them navigate change, the more I realised that this process wasn’t just personal; it was collective. It extended to our shared home, this “young” planet brimming with potential for renewal and rediscovery.

This is what Forever Blue Planet represents to me. It’s not a denial of our temporality but an embrace of it. While there is no true “forever” in our finite lives, building something enduring is possible—a monument of care, love, and impact that lives on. It is a call to cherish and nurture this blue planet, a place that is both transient and miraculous.

Ultimately, Forever Blue Planet holds dual meanings for me. On one hand, it’s a nod to those childhood declarations of permanence and belonging—naïve, yes, but deeply human. On the other, it is an existential acknowledgment: while we may not endure forever, the meaning we create and the legacy we leave can ripple far beyond us. It’s my way of honouring both the fragility of existence and the profound beauty of leaving something behind—a monument of care for this only blue planet, our home.

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